Oh Yah We Were
Italian
First of all we lived in close proximity
to about 250 Cousins, Uncles and Aunts. In our family three brothers had
married three sisters in Naples Italy. They had 18 children, my mother the
youngest of them. Close proximity means very close, like in the same house. Here
you found my grandparents when they were still alive, my Uncle Gigi and Aunt
Esther, Aunt Teresa mom's sister, her brother Uncle Peter, Mama Lee, my brother
and I and of course a restaurant that sat another 50 guests nightly.
It
was a 19 room house with 11 bedrooms on the top two floors. Two of the bedrooms
were in the attic. Now they were finished nicely wallpaper and all. There were
Italians living in the two houses next to us, the Valente's, they had two houses
the size of ours side by side that housed four or five factions of their family
including the grandparents, all the girl children and their husbands and children. My
Uncle, Dr. Bove lived across the street with my five cousins. He was really a first cousin of my mother but we never bothered with that distinction, he was Uncle Eddie aka "the doc". His was a huge
house that at one time contained his office where he saw patients. Then he opened
a new office, you guessed it, across the street and above his office just so we
didn't waste a inch of space lived Aunt Dot and Uncle John his brother and my cousin Paul.
How close was the new office you ask?
Well when my brother would come home late and mom would ask him in the morning
"what time did you get in" he would answer 1pm or so trying to be vague as possible and Aunt Dot sitting with her coffee and donut would chirp in
"it was 2:15, she never slept! Right on the same block and around the
corner was my Uncle Vic, mom's other brother who had taken over my grandfather's
grocery store and he lived above the store with my cousins Barry, Vic Jr. and
his wife Aunt Gina. When my brother moved back to Rutland after college and bought his first home, yup right there on the other side of the Valentes just 4 doors down from where he grew up and directly across from Uncle Eddie, Aunt Chris and the 5 cousins.
There
was family everywhere and we were an Italian neighborhood. As part of that
dynamic it seemed important that we all had a grape vine, ours was the biggest
and covered a beautiful slate patio out back. How I remember picking and eating
those concord grapes off the vine during football season. The old wine presses were in still in our cellar along with a dirt wine room but with the passing of my grandfather went that technology and passion. Our vine was
identical to old Mr. Valente's, not 50 yards away however for some reason when he wasn't looking
his grapes tasted a bit better.
I don't believe we ever went to a grocery
store, everything was delivered to our house from the Italian bakery, or the food
purveyors. We never ate a loaf of white bread or a can of anything! If we went to a grocery it was Uncle Vic's or the Salarni Brothers
who were the only ones that could cut the braciole the way my mother wanted it.
Every
holiday brought with it "the gathering" especially Christmas where we
would have 50 to 60 Aunts, Uncles and cousins for dinner at the restaurant. It
was a closeness that was lost with the passing of my mother's generation. I
miss it and am sorry that our children have missed out on it.
Mrs. Tom loves fish! Here is a new version for you.
Crisp Salmon with New Potato Crab Hash
Serves four
4 / 8 oz skin on salmon filets
20 small peeled and par-boiled new potatoes1lb of lump crab
olive oil to sear the potatoes and fish
1bunch scallions/ chopped
mix together 4 tablespoons virgin olive oil, 3 tablespoons water and three tablespoons lemon juice...whisk together
fresh dill/chop do not bruise
10 oven roasted roma tomatoes cut in half
Salt & Pepper
In a sauce pan pour the oil and heat. Place the
potatoes in the oil and sear them mash the potatoes
with a fork until they are rustic mashed fold in the crab add the scallions
season with salt-pepper, fresh dill and then fold on the center of the plate.
For the salmon - A Mrs. Tom Secret:
Place the salmon on a cutting board skin side up
squeeze the salmon from end to end so it humps in the middle and with a sharp
knife score the skin with 6 cuts just through the skin and into the flesh.
Place the salmon skin side down in a hot skillet or pan with oil and sear for
about 4 minutes do not touch salmon until you turn it. It will keep the fish
crispy and will hold its shape because of the scoring of the skin.
Place the fish on top of the hash drizzle with the
oil, water, lemon mixture, place the tomatoes around the fish serve
and enjoy.
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